I hate how much my parents hate each other

Honestly, I do. I hate when they talk about each other behind their backs and then five seconds later act like it's all fine. I hate how they refer to each other as "your father" and "your mother". I really hate how they expect us to be their messengers and keep secrets from each other at the same time. I just hate it. It's like they never remember why they got married in the first place, it's all about why they got divorced.